Time to let you see in my closet! Who I've done and how I've done it...

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1. How old were you when you lost your virginity? Where were you?

A few weeks shy of 15. In his bedroom while his parents were gone. I didn't know when it was over.

2. How often do you have sex a month: less than 5x, more than 5, more than 10?

Lately....less than 5. My libido has run away and the Sandman is in its place.

3. What are 3 things you always do if you know you are going to get lucky?

More intense personal grooming than normal. Smoothing everything up!

Go to bed earlier. If we wait and go to bed at our "regular" time, I'm going to be too tired.

This sounds weird but - feed the dogs earlier. This way they will hopefully be settled in bed when we get to business. I find it distracting to be doing things and hearing them licking their feet or dancing around the room.

4. Where were you the last time you had "spontaneous" sex - where it just happened with no planning and everything just clicked into place - and it was good?

A couple of months ago when I'd gotten up early before work to return something to the store. I realized that I didn't need to get to work so early so I went home for a quickie. He was driving out of the driveway when I pulled up and asked why I was there. I told him and he continued on to work. He came home about 10 minutes later saying he realized what a schmuck he would be to pass it up. Heh.

5. Where was the most "adventurous" sex you have ever had?

On the front sidewalk.

6. Ever had a 3 way?

Yes. I decided that coochies make me claustrophobic and it would be nice to have a spare man around.

7. What's the oddest/most non-sexual thing that you've thought about while having sex?

If we have milk for the next morning.

8. Have you ever had "pity sex"?

Yes. He was a diminutive man that I'd just met through a friend. I don't know how we ended up naked but once we did and he started telling me it was my job to "make it hard"....it went into the pity sex realm. He also straightened up all the cushions on the couch or bed as soon as I went to the bathroom. This was when I learned to NEVER let someone else drive me somewhere. It's always a good idea to have your own wheels to escape.

9.) How many people have you had sex with, simply because you wanted to have sex?

I'm not going to count any random encounters that happened just because I was bored or there and go with one. I was getting divorced and my friend/soon to be ex SIL kept telling me that I needed to get laid. She worked with a guy who she said would be perfect for it. They worked in a call center for an internet company and he and I started chatting online. He walked out of work and came to my house. She asked me the next day what did I do that would get men to just leave their jobs.

10.) Do you use sex as a tool/weapon to get what you want, or to get your point across?

Yes. If I know that I want to plan something (like going somewhere) that he won't be a big fan of - I've discovered that great sex the night before is not only fun but butters him up for my favor-asking the next day.